I don't know.
I think the most surprising thing was how the scenes in which they're together are portrayed. It's not a love that makes you go "awwww" as much as I thought it would be. Some parts certainly do, but it's very rough and... animalistic. I don't just mean the sex, because honestly, it's a love story, not a sex story. They only do it on screen once, and it's not very graphic at all -- it's also a very short scene. My one grapple with the sex scene was that it sort of comes out of the blue -- they just sort of start f*cking, but I think you're to assume there had been mutual unspoken feelings for a while, and they just couldn't take it anymore. Ennis is on top, looking like he's done it before, yet it doesn't seem like he would have, since he discovers he's gay *because* of his time with Jack. They do cuddle and things, but they fight a lot -- physically and verbally. It's a very dangerous, scary, painful love. Even when they kiss, they sort of just hold each other's faces, almost looking like they might hurt each other.
It's very, very sad and very, very beautiful. And I think (I don't want to spoil the ending on the boards but I'll PM it to you if you want to know, g) that as much as it's a comment about loving who you will, etc, it's also a comment on how this all needs to stop -- the hate, and the crimes and the phobia. That is just can't keep going on, and that we need to do something. I want to do something. It's a comment on the sh*t that goes on that makes loving who you want to love a f*cking impossibility, and how disgustingly unfair that is.
A work of art is an invitation to love.