yes - life is bizzare - and terribly paradoxical...
our only constant is ourselves...
and yet we are constantly changing...
we are constantly looking for outside validation
but the only true satisfaction comes from self-acceptance
you must always be will to self-examine and even self-correct
and yet must accept and love your self AS YOU ARE!!!
you get wiser and yet weaker as you age.... ("youth is wasted on the young...") unless you're smart and start to honor the body temple from early...
in the end - He's just not that into you" should NOT be a best seller...
if people REALLY "got it" - that kind of sh** would never sell because it wouldn't be necessary...
WHY should an attractive intelligent woman like tiff or cam even be ENTERTAINING the idea of going out with schmucks they DON'T LIKE?
Because somewhere (their parents, the media, etc...) they were taught that they are somehow "less than" without a boyfriend or a love of some kind (just cause lesbians "don't need a man" - don't mean they don't need SOMEBODY - hello...)
paradox - to become self-aware without becoming self-absorbed
to love, accept and trust self and still leave room to love, listen and *truly* tolerate/accept others AS THEY ARE!!!
which means take the good and leave the rest...
i have friends i love
i don't LIKE everything about them...
i'm sure they don't LIKE everything about me...
but in the real - we have always been there for each other
nobody goes without a roof - food - clothes or money...
and these things have been REAL issues over the years..
the truth of people comes out in their behavior not their words.
okay - enoughs philosphying for now...
"Stupidity should be PAINFUL!" - Cam
"Yeah - painful for the STUPID not the rest of us!"
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