Yep, there must be a distinction between chivalry and forced-dependency. Ick.
(PS. Viva ~ I probably would have been a teary mess, but since I'm not the typical 5'1, 80-lb. Asian girl, I'm used to being called chubby - I call them "boobs" -but "potato", "potatoe", "chubby". ::le sigh::)
"It's not always about you!!!" (But if you think I'm referring to you anyway, then I probably am.)
"Good luck returning my ass!" - Wilhemina Slater
"This is my breakfast, lunch and f***ing dinner right here. I'm not even f***in' joking." - Colin Farrell