Who needs a MOJITO time? — Page 42
#1028
Posted: 2/21/05 at 2:24pm
But why should he be thinking anything? Maybe he just isn't. Maybe it was just a booty call. Maybe you wont hear from him till it is time for another booty call. And maybe he is just ok with that. Are you?
HUSSY POWER!
------ HUSSY POWER!
#1029
Posted: 2/21/05 at 2:27pm
"What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way."
If this goes for men and women, it most certainly goes for men who have had a relationship with each other. You just can't be friends with ex lovers of any sort.
I am sorry you are going through this. I hope it gets better!
If this goes for men and women, it most certainly goes for men who have had a relationship with each other. You just can't be friends with ex lovers of any sort.
I am sorry you are going through this. I hope it gets better!
Deet: Shira, I Love You!
Updated On: 2/21/05 at 02:27 PM
#1030
Posted: 2/21/05 at 2:29pm
Well, it sounds like a dicey situation, but I have had my head messed with in a similar kind of way and I withdrew from the person concerned until I was absolutely sure of how I felt, which is why I said that in the earlier post. So it could be something like that. You don't know. Give it some more time. It sucks, but there you are. And you can be bitchy on here and take out your problems all you like. God knows the rest of us are and do 
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Nothing precious, plain to see, don't make a fuss over me. Not loud, not soft, but somewhere inbetween. Say sorry, just let it be the word you mean.
#1032
Posted: 2/21/05 at 2:34pm
Marquise... recommended reading (and I'm not trying to be flip or sarcastic)...
There is nothing like returning to a place that remains unchanged to find the ways in which you yourself have altered.
- Nelson Mandela
Updated On: 2/21/05 at 02:34 PM
#1033
Posted: 2/21/05 at 2:35pm
Well, I wish there were some really good blanket advice that could be given in a situation like that.
I am undergoing a similar (but not quite) situation. IT's really difficult, especially when you don't know where you stand on any given day.
oh, office update. now even hotmail seems to be unable to connect...I hope they don't have some kind of artifically intelligent blocker that is finding new mail websites and blocking them as you go to them. So odd...yet still, other websites which shouldn't be allowed are easy to access.
I am undergoing a similar (but not quite) situation. IT's really difficult, especially when you don't know where you stand on any given day.
oh, office update. now even hotmail seems to be unable to connect...I hope they don't have some kind of artifically intelligent blocker that is finding new mail websites and blocking them as you go to them. So odd...yet still, other websites which shouldn't be allowed are easy to access.
#1034
Posted: 2/21/05 at 2:36pm
Marquie;
Just maybe ( and I am not saying it was) it was a booty call to him.
Just maybe ( and I am not saying it was) it was a booty call to him.
HUSSY POWER!
------ HUSSY POWER!
#1035
Posted: 2/21/05 at 2:36pm
Bwaysinger, like this website? Hah, this website it worse than Yahoo/Hotmail/AOL combined!
Deet: Shira, I Love You!
#1038
Posted: 2/21/05 at 2:46pm
A little, but you are more then entitled.
Deet: Shira, I Love You!
#1039
Posted: 2/21/05 at 2:47pm
this is what i get for not marrying brian stokes mitchell when he asked....
I HAD TO LIGHTEN THINGS UP
I HAD TO LIGHTEN THINGS UP
#1040
Posted: 2/21/05 at 2:49pm
Saying no to Stokes is never a good idea...I'll say "Yes" to anything he wants.
Deet: Shira, I Love You!
#1041
Posted: 2/21/05 at 2:52pm
He asked? Well, there's your one big mistake. :)
I have learned VERY quickly that boys are, if anything, the same no matter which sex they prefer. They want to have a little fun and move on before any kind of real emotions set in.
I even have a friend who's sort of like that. He's not really into a relationship thing. Of course, he just met someone who knocked him off his feet and I am very glad. I only hope this new guy actually effects change as opposed to just creating a temporary thing in the friend before he reverts to his old ways.
Oh, and Shira...yes, for some reason, I can login here but not for e-mail. Thank god my phone checks e-mail.
I have learned VERY quickly that boys are, if anything, the same no matter which sex they prefer. They want to have a little fun and move on before any kind of real emotions set in.
I even have a friend who's sort of like that. He's not really into a relationship thing. Of course, he just met someone who knocked him off his feet and I am very glad. I only hope this new guy actually effects change as opposed to just creating a temporary thing in the friend before he reverts to his old ways.
Oh, and Shira...yes, for some reason, I can login here but not for e-mail. Thank god my phone checks e-mail.
#1042
Posted: 2/21/05 at 3:14pm
Marquise--you kind of knew this was going to happen when you started seeing him again, didn't you? At least you were concerned that it MIGHT happen.
You might be wrong--his not returning the phone call might be about HIM not you, some complication in his life that has nothing to do with you.
If it is about you, though--if he really just got back in touch with you so that he could make you a sexual conquest all over again--well, then, that says something about his integrity, doesn't it?
Do you really want someone who would do that to you in your life at all? As anything more than an old friend? As anything more than a f**k buddy? Dame is right: If he treats people like that, you have to lower your expectations of him. Make HIM the f**k buddy. Or a coffee buddy. Or cut him off altogether.
Meanwhile, when are you FINALLY going to let me introduce you to my friend David, the lawyer in South Beach? Now there's a man with integrity...
You might be wrong--his not returning the phone call might be about HIM not you, some complication in his life that has nothing to do with you.
If it is about you, though--if he really just got back in touch with you so that he could make you a sexual conquest all over again--well, then, that says something about his integrity, doesn't it?
Do you really want someone who would do that to you in your life at all? As anything more than an old friend? As anything more than a f**k buddy? Dame is right: If he treats people like that, you have to lower your expectations of him. Make HIM the f**k buddy. Or a coffee buddy. Or cut him off altogether.
Meanwhile, when are you FINALLY going to let me introduce you to my friend David, the lawyer in South Beach? Now there's a man with integrity...
#1044
Posted: 2/21/05 at 3:32pm
Oh, Marquise... *hug*
You didn't listen to Addy, did you?!
(of course, Addy isn't exactly in a position to be handing out advice these days...)
Drinks all around. Stiff ones.
You didn't listen to Addy, did you?!
(of course, Addy isn't exactly in a position to be handing out advice these days...)
Drinks all around. Stiff ones.
"Two drifters off to see the world. There's such a lot of world to see. . ."
#1045
Posted: 2/21/05 at 3:33pm
sorry Addy..
my head and my heart don't seem to be on the same page lately.
why can't they ever coincide?
thanks for the drink "mami"
my head and my heart don't seem to be on the same page lately.
why can't they ever coincide?
thanks for the drink "mami"
Updated On: 2/21/05 at 03:33 PM
#1046
Posted: 2/21/05 at 3:34pm
Marquise, don't ask me... I am, apparently, a failure when it comes to matters of the heart.
"Two drifters off to see the world. There's such a lot of world to see. . ."
#1047
Posted: 2/21/05 at 3:36pm
i'm sorry Addy.. i didn't know you and your man weren't together anymore.
#1048
Posted: 2/21/05 at 3:37pm
Here's to us!
"Two drifters off to see the world. There's such a lot of world to see. . ."
#1050
Posted: 2/21/05 at 3:39pm
...feeling better already
"Two drifters off to see the world. There's such a lot of world to see. . ."
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