jesse l. martin - married?

[kas]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 5:25pm

i couldn't find this and it's bugging me - someone answer me before they delete this random post - is he married? who is he with?

[beacon1]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 5:42pm

Google is our friend.

http://alljesse.bravepages.com/jesseisnew.html

Posted: 3/2/06 at 5:44pm

I know it doesn't matter and please let's not break into another "It's nobody's business" thread, but I think he's gay. So if he is with someone , I doubt he's married to him.
Updated On: 3/2/06 at 05:44 PM

[pengwendolyn]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 5:45pm

Out of pure curiosity.. why do you think he's gay?

Posted: 3/2/06 at 5:46pm

This is terrible but it's just plain, un-scientific...gaydar.

I know, pathetic.
Updated On: 3/2/06 at 05:46 PM

Posted: 3/2/06 at 5:49pm

But to be fair , my gaydar never works. So I am probably wrong on this one too.

[pengwendolyn]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 5:50pm

You never know. I think that whether or not he is, whoever he ends up with is going to be the most amazing person.

[downtowndiva84]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 5:52pm

It's none of my business (or anyone's) but...

"I like the fact that all the queer principal characters in the show are played by straight people."--Anthony Rapp as quoted in The Rent Bible.

Collins is a queer principal character, no?

Posted: 3/2/06 at 5:54pm

I can tell you like him. I love Law & Order, so I really wanted to like him. It turns out that he and Fontana are my least favorite in the history of L&O. I wish I liked him but I don't. His characterization of Green seems so whiny and vulnerable, it just keeps me from connecting with the character.

[pengwendolyn]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 5:54pm

Good point. I totally forgot about that, and how they always mention that Anthony Rapp was the only queer one. Urgh, I've been cramming my head with Spanish verbs all day. And I agree that it is none of our business, but I find one the problems with being human is that we are a very nosey group.

Posted: 3/2/06 at 6:03pm

Buena suerte en tus estudios.

[downtowndiva84]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 6:08pm

I didn't mean the "none of our business" thing in a judgemental way.

Believe me, I read the gossip mags like it's my JOB. My friends and I are also the inventors of a favorite guessing game called "Gay or European?"

So yeah, I totally understand people's curiosity lol.

[pengwendolyn]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 6:10pm

I didn't take it in a judgemental tone. Sorry if you thought I did!

Posted: 3/2/06 at 6:10pm

Well to be fair, that doesn't mean a whole lot. Mr. Rapp can write down whatever the "paper holds" and it's not necessarily the gospel.

If Mr. Martin were gay and did not want to be outed, Mr. Rapp could have just been honoring that wish. After all, it's not anyone's job to "out" other people. Unlike when Jason Alexander declared that he was the only straight actor to play Buzz Hauser in Love! Valour! Compassion! , and in one fell swoop outed Nathan Lane.

edit: And I really did not mean this in a nasty way either.
Updated On: 3/2/06 at 06:10 PM

[BobbyBubby]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 6:11pm

My gaydar goes off around him?

And why would it be such a bad thing if he were gay? I mean, I know its satan's curse, but c'mon!

I hate that everyone is straight until they say they aren't.

Posted: 3/2/06 at 6:12pm

I wish there were more visible gays. It would be so much better for all of us.

[pengwendolyn]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 6:13pm

I just hate how everything seems to always go back to what sexual orientation people are. Though I have to say that heterophobes (as I like to refer to them) are highly entertaining, I definitely know some... who only don't hate me because they think I'm dating my best friend.

[downtowndiva84]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 6:15pm

I didn't mean Rapp's quote was the gospel truth.

I was just providing some alternative "evidence".

Not that I'm the gay police lol.

Oh I'm going to get myself out of this thread while I can.

[theatrebabe]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 6:16pm

Jesse L. Martin is neither gay nor married.

Where's CJR?

Updated On: 3/2/06 at 06:16 PM

[pengwendolyn]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 6:19pm

I like how this went from whether or not he was married to whether or not he was gay. Oh well. Whatever floats your boat I suppose (I can not believe that I wrote that).

[downtowndiva84]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 6:20pm

"I like how this went from whether or not he was married to whether or not he was gay"

Well CLEARLY any man over the age of 30 who isn't married is gay.

Posted: 3/2/06 at 6:20pm

Ok now why would CJR know Mr. Martin's private thoughts?

Posted: 3/2/06 at 6:22pm

That applies to me. I'm over 30 and not married and gay. But then again it applied to me before I was over 30. LOL

[BobbyBubby]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 6:23pm

Why do people have this snotty tone about gay people, even on here?

What's so wrong with being over 30 and gay?

[downtowndiva84]

Posted: 3/2/06 at 6:25pm

You know, I sometimes forget that people can't hear my voice when they read my comments.

That "over 30, not married, gay thing" was sarcasm. I was mocking people who think that (and there are many of them, my mother included.)

damn internet. so much humor is lost.

I'm really sorry if I offended anyone.