orangeskittles- that in particular sounds quite scary.
In preschool a kid got stung by a bee and had an allergic reaction to it. He almost died. I remember because none of us knew what was going on and we got pick up early. Just one of those days you remember. At any rate, he didn't know he was allergic. That's so bad. When you don't know you're allergic and then you're hit with it...
Sorry abba

It is quite a predicament you're in but I kinda feel after a while it may blow over or get better between you and your cousin.
I mean, Denzel Washington? Gun to my head..of course.