Sally, "careless" implies it was an accident, that she didn't know the ramifications in advance. As has been pointed out by others, that just doesn't wash.
Her handling of her career has been strategic, more successful in moving into other media than almost any Broadway star in recent memory.
Her savvy management team could NOT have been UNAWARE of the homophobia of Pat Robertson--it's something Robertson is proud of. It's discussed on the show and on Robertson's appearances on CNN, Fox News and CNBC.
Kristin's team made a strategic decision to appeal to the viewers of the 700 Club--viewers who may or may not ascribe to Robertson's homophobia--and in doing so sacrifice the handful of gay fans who might be offended.
It was a choice on her part, not an accident.