No, Judy--that is wildly optimistic. Depending on a variety of factors such as genetics, education, and economic background, the earliest you can expect a man to develop reliable higher brain function is 32-34.
While gay men will often develop earlier, we devote a whopping 107% of our brain power to having sex (unlike our straight brothers, who use a more conservative 91% of cortical function to getting laid).
So, be patient. (And buy a Rabbit!)
"They have never understood, and no reason that they should.
But if anybody could . . . " --SS