This should probably be OT
All I can say is WHAT???? When the hell did that happen? As the OP said they started dating while they were both in Grease. She played Patty and he played Kenicke for those who don't know. From what I was told she moved to LA with him when the show closed.
Engagement Announcement
"All our dreams can come true -- if we have the courage to pursue them." -- Walt Disney
We must have different Gods. My God said "do to others what you would have them do to you". Your God seems to have said "My Way or the Highway".