Yes, it's difficult -- sometimes you can catch a show if they have one that plays a different schedule than yours.
Actors do get to take time off...and some will do it to catch a show...or at least build it into their day off. While doing their own show, however, they don't get to see everything that's new.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.