Oy.
If I had to spend the REST of my life with one of them, and I had to choose today, I'd probably pick Raul. I think he's got more personality... and he's really cuddly, damn it! They're both really sweet, but I just get different vibes from each of them. I can't really explain.
As for the attractiveness factor, I'm TOTALLY non-committal. I can't even begin to think about who I find more attractive. I heart them both.
Vocally: again, a draw. I love both of their voices. Adam's is just plain sexy, but Raul can pull of that sexy rock 'n roll thing AND do more classical musical theatre stuff that Adam would never sound good doing.
And... *shocker* I'll be the first to admit that there's a lot Adam can't do. Honestly, Raul is 10 times the actor that Adam could ever be... hands down the single most talented actor I've ever had the privilege of seeing.
Okay, I probably missed a ton while sitting here typing that out, but you asked for it! I love my boys!!!
A work of art is an invitation to love.