I guess that's the beauty of this piece, and why they felt they needed to have a talk-back after the previews.
I suppose I should say spoilers too.
With Stiles' character I felt she was obviously going over the line saying the attempted to rape her, etc. She was clearly twisting words and actions, but to make a larger point, where I found her correct.
I guess the conflict for me was did the ends justify the means. I did find him to a sexist, egotistical pig. His theories were very elitist and classist.
The problem was she had no power over him to make him change his ways or punish him for this behavior, and that's why I found she manipulated the (seemingly) innocent things he did.
I'm trying to change your mind or anything, because I really see the other side too. I guess like I said before I really find these characters to be wonderful ambiguous, and that's what makes the play so fun to watch.
Marie: Don't be in such a hurry about that pretty little chippy in Frisco.
Tony: Eh, she's a no chip!