Because one genuflects at the alter of Sondheim does that mean all should? Or should one view each show in its own right. Not all of his shows appeal to all people. Granted there is genius in his works, but what's so wrong with wanting to leave a show humming a song sometime?
To believe that one is lesser a musical theater fan because they don't enjoy all of Sondheim or appreciate all his works is as narrow minded a point of view as those that discount all of Wildhorn as loathsome and see ALW as the devil incarnate.
And yes, age can make a difference. Sometimes one needs to have lived life a little to fully savor his works.
Rest in peace, Iflitifloat.