To those of you still reading this, let me repeat that this was not a school or organized group trip. This was a personal party trip. I am sure school, camp, church, girl scout groups, etc. have more experience doing this kind of thing and have learned a few tricks along the way. I thought that since my daughter has inherited her mother's love of theater, this would be a nicer Bat Mitzvah party for her than spending the equivalent of what it costs to put on a wedding for a DJ party that would be just like everyone elses. Therefore, that explains my inexperience with groups. I agree that the agency who sold me the tickets should have/could have sent detailed instructions on how to make it a smoother experience with a larger group.
Anne_Elizabeth, yes, that was a MAJOR part of the problem - not to mention how he grabbed the tickets from my hand without telling me what he was going to do with them. A five second conversation would have helped. Handled like you suggested, I wouldn't have had a problem with him.
George95, the irony was that I actually had the photocopied map of the seats buried in my purse but things were moving at such a rapid pace, I didn't have the clarity of thought to go digging for it. Mental note to self: keep it in my hand the whole time.
Snowskittle- I can absolutely picture this guy doing that. Was the guy who was making you nervous very tall?
Fosse76, yes, thanks for your suggestion. That is exactly what I will do if I still feel I want to pursue it. Although alot of the steam has been drained out of me by discussing it here on this board and I do feel alot better, it does seem like some others have had some poor interactions with this group of staff and maybe someone should let the theater group know so things can be improved for others in the future. I am definitely not out to make people lose their jobs or anything like that but I am a big supporter of being treated decently. People shouldn't assume that all people are nitwits or dopey or whatever because they may be from out of town or with a group or with kids. I really did try to organize us to the best of my ability without ever having done something so big scale before. I tried to think ahead of how to make it easier for everyone and, like I said, it just got away from me. Alienating people like me is a shame (don't worry, I would never stop supporting theater because of this), but others may very well be scared away or decide it's just not worth it. If you don't have paying customers in those seats, no show on earth will survive. Again, thanks for everyone's ideas - I did learn alot of good tips here.
Updated On: 3/3/09 at 03:19 PM