haterobics said: "Elfuhbuh said: "Having a musical with a female bisexual that's not portrayed as a slut that cheats would be nice, too. (I'm looking at you, RENT.)"
So, this is such a common trope that your go-to example is from 1994?!"
It's not that common a trope, actually, which is my point. One of the only female bisexual characters I can think of in a musical is Maureen, and she's portrayed as a cheater, which is sadly a label that's tacked on to many bisexual women in the real world, making this example of representation problematic. I'm saying with shows such as Fun Home exploring female sexuality and homosexuality in women, it would be nice to take another step and have a show focusing on the struggles that come with female bisexuality, whether it's being treated like a sex object by hetero guys ("Hey, wanna have a threesome with me and my girlfriend?" "Would you and your girlfriend kiss for me?" ) or getting the "grossed out" reaction from straight girls that many lesbians also sadly receive ("You like girls?! Ew?! How do I know you won't hit on me?!" ) or being excluded by some members of the LGBT community ("How do I know you won't just leave me for a guy?" "You're not really into girls, you're just doing this to get guys' attention!" "It's a shame you're bi; I don't want to go anywhere near where a penis has been. Ew." ).
We also need more bisexual male representation, since male bisexuals tend to face similar issues and yet very different ones at the same time. ("You can't like both genders, just pick a side!" "Gross, bro, you like guys? Don't hit on me." "You're not really bi, you're just gay, but you're afraid to come out of the closet all the way." Think Phillypinto and his whole spiel about bisexuality, and you'll actually get a pretty good indicator of how several people view this topic. Philly may not be the brightest crayon in the box, but his opinions on the matter sadly aren't too far off from how several others feel.) Luckily, we're getting a bit of male bisexuality represented through shows like If/Then and Cabaret, but we could always up the game a bit.
This also goes for asexual representation, too. It would definitely be interesting to see a show where the main character expresses complete disinterest in sexual and/or emotional attraction, since we never really see much of that in musicals, either. The more representation each sexuality (or lack thereof) has, the more accepting we as a community will grow.
"Was uns befreit, das muss stärker sein als wir es sind." -Tanz der Vampire
Updated On: 10/3/15 at 05:01 AM