I wasn't aware twink was ever used in the negative context of being vapid and shallow. This is the first I'm hearing of that, and I don't know Clay personally, or even casually. In fact, this is the first I've heard of him. I meant just in his body type. When I was saying "far far far far", I was referring to myself and my body, not his. I think, body type wise, he has many if not all of the twink characteristics from the definition I stated. That's the only definition I've known all my life. I didn't realize that's why everyone was uncomfortable with me using it, and I apologize wholeheartedly. I was being a little condescending before, but I didn't realize that paired with a negative view of the word, I just looked flat out mean rather than comical. So again, I'm very sorry.
They/them.
"Get up the nerve to be all you deserve to be."