I was 14. It was 1970. I told the only other kid at my high school who was into Broadway musicals that I had just seen Minnie's Boys.
He laughed at me and told me that Minnie's Boys was stupid and old-fashioned and that I should go see this show at the Alvin called Company that he had just seen in previews. It was by Stephen Sondheim and it was really cool.
I said "Who?" and he told me why I should know who Stephen Sondheim, condescendingly. It was 1970. Other than Funny Thing, he was "just" a lyricist, but I was embarrassed to be so uncool.
I went that Saturday matinee and saw Company for my first of 4 times. It totally changed the way I saw theater, relationships, life, everything. It wasn't just the role of Bobby. I was also obsessed (at 14) with Elaine Stritch and Barbara Barrie. I cought the album (33 1/3 LP vinyl records back then) and proceeded to memorize the entire show.
A few weeks later, Dean Jones left the show and Larry Kert stepped into the role. I went back to see it with the kid who first told me to go, and we argued over who was better: Dean Jones or Larry Kert? I was transfixed by Larry Kert's voice and performance. He preferred Dean Jones.
Then I went back to see it when Jane Russell took over for Stritch and again, my 4th time, when Vivian Blaine took the role. Jane Russell was weird but good. Vivian Blaine was good but not great. Neither of them was Stritch.
I started memorizing every Sondheim lyric I could find, and when news started coming out about Follies, I became obsessed with that too.
I left a note with the Winter Garden stage doorman for the Follies cast opening night, signed with my name, as if anyone would know or care. I remember he asked who it was for and I replied, "Everyone."
The next morning I was on line to buy tickets--Hal Prince sold the last two rows in the balcony for $2 each. The line for the box office stretched down Broadway, around the corner and up 7th Avenue past the stage door. Hal Prince and Ruthie Mitchell had a coffee cart going up and down the line, dispensing free and coffee and doughnuts to everyone waiting to buy tickets.
I saw Follies 6 times and A Little Night Music 5 times. Those productions were beyond perfection--they remain among the most peak experiences of my life. After that I went to college, but I didn't love a Sondheim show that much again until Sunday in the Park. Nevertheless, I am still proud of the fact that I know so many of his lyrics by heart.
He is part of who I am.
Tonight, my partner and I are seeing the Roundabout benefit of A Little Night Music with Vanessa Redgrave, Natasha Richardson, Victor Garber, Marc Kudisch and Christine Baranski. He's never seen it.
I think we may be in for another peak experience.
Updated On: 1/12/09 at 05:35 PM