My friend once said that Wicked was one entire big lesbian moment; I just think the whole queering of Wicked boils down to the fact that it had two female leads.
Well, whether or not Elphaba and Glinda had gay feelings for each other is really anyone's guess, but the point is, it's not crucial to the plot. I guess Stacey Wolf can interpret the song and lyrics whatever way she wants, but ultimately it doesn't affect my understanding of the musical. I choose to see friendship between them and nothing much more.
That said, i have to admit I grossly misinterpreted The Wizard and I the first time I heard it. I actually thought Elphaba was singing of the Wizard as a lover. I guess I only heard...
"Oh, what a pair we'll be
The Wizard and I;
Yes, what a pair we'll be
The Wizard and..."
and
"
And I'll stand there with the Wizard,
Feeling things I've never felt.
And though I'd never show it,
I'll be so happy, I could melt!
And so it will be
For the rest of my life,
And I'll want nothing else
Till I die."
...and assumed she was in love with the Wizard. Also didn't help that I was one of those who misheard "I'll want nothing else Till I die" as "I'll walk down the aisle till I die" - which just made me think her lifelong ambition was to marry the Wizard. I am just such a failure
In Soviet Russia, Wicked hates you too!