ROBBIEJ, You have me fascinated :) by something you wrote:
"I actually know three ladies who worked with him (two different FIDDLERS and JEROME ROBBINS' BROADWAY) who all adored the man and who never felt abused by him."
Having known EVERYONE involved onstage and behind the scenes of JEROME ROBBINS BROADWAY and its subsequent tour as well as having known EVERYONE involved in any production of FIDDLER Robbins was personally involved with, except some overseas productions of FIDDLER he worked on briefly in the late 1960s, Your assertion is simply shocking.
I and/or my "other half" must personally know the three ladies of whom you speak and we are baffled on who on earth they could be. I have NEVER BEFORE heard of or witnessed anyone in a Robbins production who "adored" him or did NOT feel abused by him. The only folks who did not feel direct abuse from him at times were "big name stars." Perhaps these three lady friends of yours were joking with you.
If you think they were not joking with you, I would love it if you would kindly PM me with their names or PM me and simply ask one of these ladies to phone me. We WILL certainly know each other as they worked with Robbins on JRB or FIDDLER. I will simply be fascinated to hear directly from them that they "adored" Robbins and did not feel abused by him.
What your 3 lady friends are telling you is simply unprecedented and absolutely stunning to me. Again, I suspect they were joking with you. If not, I look forward to speaking with any one of them to renew an old acquaintance and to find out what mind altering medications they are likely taking. :)
Thanks Robbie J!! Hope to hear from you. :)
"Blow out the candles Robert and make a wish. Want something, want SOMETHING."