Beaverhausen, many folks from the upper west side of the village got to know Mr. S in the bibilical sense, shall we say. Many years ago I dated the actor Peter Burnell(he played Mike Powers on THE DOCTORS soap opera and appeared on Broadway with Rex Harrison and Julie Harris in IN PRAISE OF LOVE--sadly Peter died of AIDS many years after "we were together")
who had previously been in a very brief relationship with Sondheim (I don't think Sondheim had a real relationship until he was over 60.) Burnell (Peter Burnell's real name was Burnell Strumley) told me that the judge's "self whipping" number from SWEENEY TODD was "where Steve was at sexually."
My only FIRSTHAND experience with a star director/choreographer was with Michael Bennett. He was with Bob Avian at Liza's opening night the first time she played Carnegie Hall. I was there too, along with my "other half Barry," at the time(by the way, we had better seats--row eight on the aisle!)
During intermission in the lobby, Michael literally kept looking in my eyes and up and down me.....When Barry went to the mens' room, Michael Bennett rushed over to me and said "I want you to call me, I'm Michael Bennett. My phone number is-- then he repeated his phone number four times--Then he said to me "You got it?" I said yes. He said, "you'll call me?" I said yes. Then he repeated his phone number again. And I said yes I got it. He then returned to standing with Mr. Avian while my heart was racing. When Barry returned from the mens' room, I quickly went there and hurriedly wrote down Michael's phone number. We were "alone" for the first time three days later.
Sadly, I wish I were unique. But, I have heard and read similar stories from dozens and dozens of young men around the New York theater scene at the time. And just to let you know, Michael Bennett created magic in any room he was in. I think I fell in love with him in the lobby of Carnegie Hall.
"Blow out the candles Robert and make a wish. Want something, want SOMETHING."