"btw she is also anti-abortion/anti-choice iirc."
So?
Are we suppose to exclude people on our side fighting for us simply because they may disagree with some of us on other issues?
Because that seems like a real smart plan: start adding stipulations for being for marriage equality.
If you ever voted for Bush, we don't want you!
If you live in a red state, we don't want you!
If you're a fiscal conservative, we don't want you!
That's bound to draw more people to the fight.
"One no longer loves one's insight enough once one communicates it."
The opposite of creation isn't war, it's stagnation.