OlBlueEyes said: "You are right that white men are not comfortable about giving up power to minorities. It was white men, after all, that settled the country and fought for its existence. It was the white men not of my generation, but of my father's, that wereput to the test in 1941, The First World War was a ludicrous and barbaric display of everything foolish and stupid about the white men who controlled Europe at the beginning of the century. The Vietnam War was well-meant to save the world from the Russian threat, but the notion of losing the cold war by means of the domino theory in retrospect seems almost nutty and not worth the death of 50,000 men and the physical and mental maiming of 50,000 more. An excuse might be that the white men who had fought in Europe were genuinely afraid of cruel Joe Stalin and his absolute disregard of any moral restraints.
But the Nazis in Europe and the Japanese in China were pure evil and had to be stopped. The white men, not the white women, suffered horribly. And the white men wonder if those in charge now would have faced that responsibility or looked the other way for as long as possible."
By “white men, after all, that settled the country”, I assume you know this means stealing land that didn’t belong to them and subjugating the native peoples. And then enslaved people from another country to work that land.
And please do not forget that brown and black men also fought in all the wars you mention. They would have fought more in some of these wars, but white men prohibited it.
You also say “The white men, not the white women, suffered horribly.” White men have held most of the power in the U.S.A. since the beginning and all women have suffered greatly for it. If you mean they didn’t suffer in the wars the way men did, keep in mind many of these men returned to women who also suffered through the repercussions of what war does to their loved ones.
But you are right. Some white men are terrified of losing their power. That explains in part that dumpster fire of an election two years ago that we’ve been paying for on a daily basis since.