Mean Girls Fan Day Performance- Page 2

[theaterwiz414]

Posted: 10/4/18 at 7:43pm

Anakela said: "theaterwiz414 said: "Good for you, theaterwiz414....how were you able to get a ticket to go?"

That’s one secret I’ll never tell....xoxo gossip squirrel"

Wow. I really hope someone replies that way to you the next time you start a post on here asking for advice on how to get tickets to the next thing that you really can't put into words how much you want to attend."

It was a joke. Calm down. I believe I did explain it somewhere further up on this post? If not....here goes.

 

So I knew there wouldn’t be a rush line or anything, but I decided to go by the theater anyway. The person at the box office said all tickets had been claimed (lies). I decided to stick around because hey, you never know, right? There had to be at least one person who didn’t show up? So I waited across the street. As it got closer to showtime, I found out from people standing by me that they did in fact have tickets. About 10-15 minutes before show time they moved the ticket pickup line from a bar across the street to the box office. I stood there with three other people. I saw one of them run outside and just outside the doors were two people with envelopes with tickets!!! They definitely had them leftover. I asked for one, and GOT A TICKET. Left orchestra, not a bad seat at all!! I couldn’t have been more thrilled.

 

note: for special performances like this,  do not rely on this method. It is NEVER guaranteed. 

Also: ....no need to attack me for a joke. 

[Moderator]

Posted: 10/4/18 at 7:45pm

Folks, I suppose I understand why the topic of the Mean Girls Fan Day might make people feel the need to insult and antagonize people, but let's please put an end to that. We locked the other thread yesterday, and don't want to have to do it to this one too. 

If people on this thread continue to allow the conversation to devolve into personal attacks and bickering, instead of locking the thread for people who actually want to discuss the topic at hand, we will instead have to suspend those problem users, especially if they were part of the problem in the original thread. 

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[theaterwiz414]

Posted: 10/5/18 at 5:12am

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Updated On: 10/12/18 at 05:12 AM

[ashthebwaystar]

Posted: 10/5/18 at 6:08pm

lies

[Bwayfan292]

Posted: 10/5/18 at 6:10pm

Chill

[ClumsyDude15]

Posted: 10/5/18 at 9:58pm

To steer this back to the topic on hand, the performance had such a great energy and the audience was very receptive and living for it. A little obnoxious perhaps, but you could tell the cast was loving it.

I ran up pretty close to curtain and caught the cast heading out for a photo op with the West Fetch Street sign.

Tina, Casey, Nell, Jeff, and Jonathan Bennett (Aaron Samuels from the movie) appeared before curtain with Jonathan giving the speech about how the state of New York had deemed October 3rd Mean Girls Day. Tina also gave a mini speech thanking the fans of the show for their support and it was really sweet.

I know a few friends who also got in at the last minute (A friend of mine won for myself and her) so it definitely was something people could get into last minute.

Again, the energy was fantastic and the cast was on fire and loving it. I’m definitely very glad I got to be there for such a great performance.

Updated On: 10/5/18 at 09:58 PM

[theaterwiz414]

Posted: 10/6/18 at 12:18pm

ashthebwaystar said: "lies"

 

Youre sayijg im lying about them provoking me? I sent them a calm message asking them not to call me a stan. Here are the responses I got

“Oh honey, you're becoming hysterical -- please go lie down somewhere you big STAN!” 

ruly do not underSTANd why you are conSTANtly being such an insufferable little twit.  Please, stop it this very inSTANt

 

They also sent me a message cursing me out for calling them a troll. If anything, they owe me an apology. That’s all. 

 

 

[herstarcuffedjeans]

Posted: 10/6/18 at 1:40pm

So I think ClumsyDude15 covered pretty much everything that happened at the Fan Day performance. It was truly an experience I'm not going to forget, and I'm glad I was able to share it with everybody who was there. I don't think I've ever seen such an enthused audience or group of performers, and I'm almost hesitant to ever see Mean Girls again...that's how much I enjoyed the show.

On the topic of stans though, I would like to say that I consider myself a Mean Girls stan. According to Urban Dictionary it just means that you really love something, and a person shouldn't be ashamed of that. I think about Mean Girls a lot more than the average person, and I enjoy talking to my friends about it. I've seen it a few times, I've pretty much always stopped by the stagedoor afterwards, and I follow a bunch of the cast on Instagram. I can own that, because it honestly isn't dangerous behavior. Liking someone's posts on Instagram or getting them a gift for their birthday is a little bit extra, sure, but it should never be associated with the same behaviors as an actual stalker.

It's okay to be a fan - even a superfan - and (while I don't condone the way theaterwiz414 has been replying) I can understand why a person could be upset for being called out for just liking something a lot. I'm sure there are stans who make performers feel uncomfortable and that's never okay, but let's not paint the entire community with that negative connotation. Some of us are just normal people who appreciate a show more than other fans. It's not something anyone should get upset about.

[bwayrose7]

Posted: 10/6/18 at 3:43pm

First off, if this isn't the right thread for this, please let me know and I'll delete. 

starcuffedjeans, I get what you're saying, and perhaps it's a generational thing: I hear a lot more teenagers using "stan" in a casual context that older fans. But if you're going to cite Urban Dictionary to say that "stan" doesn't refer to obsessive fans but just passionate ones, you might also want to note that, out of the seven entries on the first page, six of them reference a "stan" as being some variation on obsessed, stalkerish, or otherwise going beyond typical passion for a star or their work. That's why I, for one, tend to cringe a little when people use that term, because it does so often accompany very intense behaviors. I know it's just a quirk of language, but nuances of language do matter in my opinion. 

I don't think the behavior you described is necessarily "stan" behavior. Many, many fans follow casts on Instagram, chat about shows with friends, and go to the stagedoor. But my opinion - and my experience with the theatre pros who I know - is that there's a wide range of behavior that isn't literal stalking but is definitely on the obsessive side, and it's not necessarily something I think is good, and shows like Mean Girls have seemed to attract a LOT of that behavior.

[theaterwiz414]

Posted: 10/9/18 at 8:07am

bwayrose7 said: "First off, if this isn't the right thread for this, please let me know and I'll delete.

starcuffedjeans, I get what you're saying, and perhaps it's a generational thing: I hear a lot more teenagers using "stan" in a casual context that older fans. But if you're going to cite Urban Dictionary to say that "stan" doesn't refer to obsessive fans but just passionate ones, you might also want to note that, out of the sevenentries on the first page, six of them reference a "stan" as being some variation on obsessed, stalkerish, or otherwise going beyond typical passion for a star or their work. That's why I, for one, tend to cringe a little when people use that term, because it does so often accompany very intense behaviors.I have never exhibited any sort of behavior mentioned, which is why I agree with this and take offense to being labeled a s "stan" when I never have.  I know it's just a quirk of language, but nuances of language do matter in my opinion. And that's also something someone wouldn't want to be labeled as. And that's something you should respect, rather than continue to call them. Even though you might not think your "amusing" words about calling someone a stan because they're enthusiastic about a show would mean anything, please think again. 

I don't think the behavior you described is necessarily "stan" behavior. Many, many fans follow casts on Instagram, chat about shows with friends, and go to the stagedoor. But my opinion - and my experience with the theatre pros who I know - is that there's a wide range of behavior that isn't literal stalking but is definitely on the obsessive side, and it's not necessarily something I think is good, and shows like Mean Girls have seemed to attract a LOT of that behavior." Including-but not limited to-following actors home from the theater-like what are you thinking??? I can't believe someone actually did that. To me, that is what stans do-they have obsessive behavior, which is why I got offended, and why I got defensive, because I'm a FAN, and I support theater, but I have never exhibited stalker-ish behavior. I really didn't appreciate people calling me a stan, even when I asked them politely to stop. 

 

Not to beat a dead horse, but I just wanted to clear that up. Thank you, bwayrose7, for putting into words what I couldn't. I hope we can move on from this with people respecting each other, because in our world right now we don't need people being nasty to each other or disrespecting them. We get enough of that elsewhere. 

 

[herstarcuffedjeans]

Posted: 10/9/18 at 9:17am

Thank you bwayrose7! Now that I think about it, I don't think I ever got on the actual Urban Dictionary, but rather the preview on Google. Good at technology I am not. 

I do agree that the word "stan" has this connotation of stalkerish behavior , but I also see people use it quite casually and not about fandoms or "stars" necessarily. I guess that's where my confusion comes from, because I'm in a few friend groups where we stan each other or random posts we find on the internet. Perhaps that's just us using the term incorrectly, but there was a period of a few weeks where one of the group chats I was in was literally called "We Stan Emily" and I was by no means worried. It was a sign of love, if not a bit silly. 

I spend a lot of time rolling my eyes at the things Mean Girls fans say or do, but at the end of the day that's their prerogative. I laugh a little bit when the tweens can't stop talking about "Barrett" and "Heathers" at the stagedoor, or when someone legitimately spent $1800 at the Mean Girls table at flea (I still can't believe that happened). But I have to remind myself that the important thing is that the actors feel safe, and I'm so grateful that many of the people in this show have been quite forward about how they feel about certain fans' actions. I just don't think it's our job to be guardkeepers in the community. 

...So yeah, I consider myself a stan of Mean Girls and I consider a lot of my friends to be stans of Mean Girls. I consider you, theaterwiz414, to be a stan of Mean Girls. You post enough about it - in different threads - and you cared enough about fan day that you were trying to barter tickets for other shows and rare playbills to be able to see it again. That's more than a normal fan would do, but it doesn't mean I think you follow the cast home.