Guys and gals, I really, really appreciate y'all helping me out with this.
Still looking though. Listened to "Never Gonna Dance" and many versions of "Shall we Dance" on napster but none are it. And after reading the lyrics, I know that's not it

The song she is singing is very about her, what she's getting out of the relationship, the dance, that kind of theme.
I listened to "They can't take that away from me" but the slower and more sultry version by Anita Ellis and that is very close to what I think I'm looking for. However, I know there is a short orchestral break in the middle of the song and that one didn't have it.
Damn, I can't believe I forgot this. It was only 10 miles from work to home, one would think!!