That's not for you to judge. Personally there have been very few shoes I haven't allowed many own kids to see. But I realize AND respect that those aren't the right choices for every family.
It's none if your business if the family wants to keep things tamer for their kids. When you have kids, raise them as you see fit.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.