Patti nails the song and Bernadette is exciting and Dean Jones created it, but nothing, NOTHING will ever compare to the experience of seeing the late Larry Kert sing it. I saw the original 5 times--once with Dean Jones and 4 times with Larry Kert.
Kert opened a vein when he sang it, with a ferocity no one knew he had. The way he sang the song seemed so personal that the song seemed shocking...like when a friend confesses to a deep dark secret.
You can hear Larry Kert sing it as one of the extras on the most recent Company CD or on the Sondheim tribute CD with the Scrabble cover.