I make my lists way ahead of time too. Every time I see about something that is or might be coming, I write it down. I'll be there in the fall too. I have a lot of the ones already mentioned and some that are not yet announced (and maybe won't be)
Front Page, Great Comet, Falsettos, Smokey Joe's Cafe, Heisenburg, Love, Love, Love, Sell/Buy/Date, Plenty, Cats (I've never seen it and figure I should) and now adding Sweet Charity. I'm sure there are more that are yet to be announced.
I also never have a problem eating. It's one of my top three - shows, museums, eating. There are so many really good places and it's pretty easy to get in and out with plenty of time.
You'll have a great time. For me, planning adds to the enjoyment of the trip.