boy, some people will jump on any little thing to try to make someone look bad.
Honestly, even if she HAD missed a performance to be with her fiance, those are choices people make. (Just like someone taking off a day of work to go to a college graduation!)
Sheesh.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.