Jarethan said: "i hope your birthday is not too soon. Sucks to have a celebration that has to be so constrained. My wife turned 70 last week; although she did get a lot of cards and more flowers than she expected, it was not the same as it would have been a year ago...since we did not venture North this summer (why fly or drive 1,500 miles if you are still going to quarantine?), no close friends or family were around even for a socially distanced celebration.
Happy 75th, whenever it is.
PS -- to the person with the snarky comment re the arrangements, i think you are just looking for somethingsto look down on...they looked beautiful to me, and different."
Thank you for the birthday sentiments but # 75 is a way off yet. I was advised to start the planning early and I'm glad I did. It's like preparing a wedding reception.
Already I've hit a glitch with the venue. My original choice was a religious retreat house (Don't laugh, the facility was exceptional and out-of-town guests would have excellent overnight accommodations if they chose). However, the center abruptly closed after many, many years.
My second choice is smaller and that limits the guest list and might not allow for live performances. With all my theater friends, we'd certainly want to have them perform a number or two. I might have this restaurant cater the party at another location but no one is willing to prepare roast suckling pigs with chestnut and oyster dressing for a large crowd.
Flowers are taken care of, but I still haven't found a bakery that is willing to make a cake that looks like a "Holy Caboose". And I'm searching for a costume shop that is willing to make ribbons down their backs for all my female guests. Of course, the goody bag will include chocolate covered peanuts--unshelled.
I'm really glad I'm getting a head start on this project.
"Long live God!" (GODSPELL)