Pal Joey,
Great, great story about Ethel!
I have read one biography and it is full of stories like that. Of course, Ethel did have some real tragedies in her life, and as I have said before, there are many who attest to her goodheartedness and loyalty. She wasn't a very educated woman, and I recall comments from the biography that indicated she didn't truly "understand" a lot of the material she was working with...which frustrated the librettist, composer, lyricist, producer, director, you name it. But boy, on stage, she could deliver like there was no tomorrow.
Reminds of that Billy Wilder comment about Marilyn Monroe, who was legendary for being late, "sick," absent, hungover and so forth on the movie set. She infuriated everyone, including Wilder, who once commented (I'm paraphrasing): "My Aunt Minnie is NEVER late, but no one is going to pay for a ticket to see my Aunt Minnie."
"Be on your guard! Jerks on the loose!"
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