Why is everyone getting so up in arms about Bobby ( a much longer time member than most who responded) for bringing up a topic he felt like bringing up? I can't speak for anyone but myself, but to me, it certainly wasn't an issue of it simply being brought up, but rather the indication that this so-called "complaining" is still going on. And again, personally, I don't have a problem discussing it --
especially with some distance. But, while I do reserve my right to remain disappointed in the verdict, in the end, what's done is done and that's the way it is. Not to say we cannot or should not speak of it, but why must we act as though people are STILL up in arms about it, rather than just admitting we're re-raising a topic of discussion?
Truly, reading the subject, instinctually, I read it as "my God, are people SERIOUSLY still going on about this?" as opposed to the query of whether or not people indeed WERE, when, as you can clearly tell, they weren't until this thread jump-started it again. Does that make sense? I do apologize for misreading, but that said, I do still stand by the fact that while you may exhaust being vocal about your dissent, a loss in which you were personally invested --for whatever reason -- isn't something you just up and forget about very quickly. It was sad and disheartening for a lot of people. I don't think the fact that many of us have decided there's no use in babbling about it for months means it's any less of a sore spot. Frankly, it just means that we're level-headed enough to know that going on and on about it does no good.
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