Oak2 said: "Thank you all for your suggestions. It sounds like the bands visit is the most suggested, but now I'm concerned that it's not for me if it's as subtle as you all suggest. Most times subtle does not work for me at all because of my autism. I can't pick up on subtle expressions and such, and have very low tolerance for slow pacing, and now I'm worried if it's as subtle as you imply I'm more likely to just fall asleep during it. I like things that can still entertain me while making me think if it's going to do that. Re come from aways manipulation, I think I personally need something like that to be invested. Left on my own with only subtlety my default reaction will probably be "I don't care about these people or what happens to them". If I'm wrong with these fears please let me know, otherwise I'd rather save a risky show like that on a cheaper tour ticket and pay the larger money for something that has a higher chance of me enjoying it. While SpongeBob now sounds more for me, as I adore over the top, high energy, and especially love anything camp or kitsch."
Considering all the above, it pains me to say you should probably skip The Band’s Visit, which I dearly love. It is subtle and shares some of the same qualities of other shows (DEH, Fun Home) that you either detested or weren’t blown away by. I’d rather you not spend your time and money on a show I adore only to report that you did not have a good time.
So now that My Fair Lady has been added into the mix....hmmm.... I haven’t seen either, (I’m seeing both in 2 weeks - yay!) but I’m inclined to recommend My Fair Lady. I’m sure you’d enjoy Spongebob, but My Fair Lady is an American classic that by most accounts has received a stunning revival. Also, since it’s a musical from the “Golden Age”, it’s not likely to be too subtle for you. It won’t be over-the-top like Spongebob, but it’s emotions will be clear. And you already love the cast recording.
However, I am almost certain MFL will tour. And Sher’s The King and I touring production has received strong reviews. I’m not certain Spongebob will tour and if it does, it will probably not be able to feature the reportedly awesome set it has on Broadway. And there will likely be no Ethan Slater.
Also, after I bought all my tickets (9 shows including the two parts of Angels in America!) ahead of time, I quit paying attention to what is listed at TKTS. I’m sure even if Slater wins best actor tomorrow night, it will still be easy to get a relatively cheap ticket through TKTS or possibly via box office. Unless things have changed, I don’t think the same can be said for MFL.
Whatever you decide I’m sure will be the right decision for you.
Updated On: 6/9/18 at 06:18 PM