Sure, DC doesn't get a lot of tours but I see a show almost every week and I'm never short on options. Don't sell the DC theatre scene short; we have a lot of it and most of it is very good. There's something for everyone in all price ranges and in most cases, better than what you'd find in NY in the commercial houses. You just can't limit yourself to the Kennedy Center or even Arena. I don't think every show falls into the two bins: catering to the elderly or those who like experimental theatre. If you think that, you clearly don't go to much theatre around here. Sure there is Arena and Signature, but there is also Woolly, Studio, Theatre J, Forum, Constellation, Olney, Roundhouse and the list goes on and on.
I for one am glad we have a lot of regional/local theatre so I don't have to limit myself to the tours to get a theatre fix. They are likely to be watered down and tired. If I want to see a big Broadway show that appeals to the masses, I go to NY, and I do so at least once a month.
"Why do you care what people might say? Why try to fit into their design?" (Side Show)