I can't tell you how odd it feels to see you having this discussion. I've struggled with all these thoughts since I saw the play two years ago, and my feelings for it are way too complex and confusing to articulate in words. It's painful and unfair, but I've made my peace with it. I really love this play, it just feels bizarre to see people having these thoughts for the first time after I'd wrestled with them for ages and then put them aside and...here they are again. :) Sorry, this was kinda OT.
I also have to disagree that the ending comes out of left field. The ending is set up several times with the flash forwards of Irwin in a wheelchair.
Just because it's foreshadowed doesn't mean it's not simply tacked on to provide a big finale. I'm not the only one who feels so, to quote Michael Feingold:
"The improbable catastrophe that concludes the play is cooked up out of Hector's kink, in a manner altogether too dramaturgically convenient, and the final irony—a surprising number of the boys get into Oxford or Cambridge but go on to lead less than stellar lives—etc..."
It's a dramatically convenient ending. Although I liked the rest of the play a good deal more than Mr. Feingold seems to have.
Of course, I just redug this thread up, and now I have to leave for work! Roninjoey, I agree that the fates of the other 7 boys are fairly realistic (as far as their all being fairly middle of the road; for the most part not remarkable, but also not anything particularly terrible in their future lives either). I guess I just didn't have as much of a problem with Posner's as you did. I definitely had a pang of "oh no" when it was revealed what became of him, but there was also something about him throughout, where I could totally see him just kind of slipping through the cracks. The beginning of Act II certainly sets us up to recognize that things go terribly wrong for him at some point.
Ugh! Gotta go. This obviously didn't clear things up.
I just want to add some biographical information- Alan Bennett is openly gay and he does have a long-term partner...so unlike the character Posner, he didn't grow old alone.
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