BFB, then I apologized and, although it was uneeded, so did he. Why bring that up? It has nothing to do with you. Talk about beating a DEAD HORSE...
"He found something that he wanted, had always wanted and always would want— not to be admired, as he had feared; not to be loved, as he had made himself believe; but to be necessary to people, to be indispensable."
-F. Scott Fitzgerald's This Side of Paradise