nomdeplume, if you don't like the show, then just don't see it. Personally, I agree that Matt Morrison is talented but looks like he has stepped out of
Tiger Beat, which is not Robbie Hart. I also have yet to see his Streep-like qualities (thanks,
Roninjoey) that allow him to be perfect for any and all roles onstage.
The Wedding Singer is based on an Adam Sandler movie. It's charming, and certainly has "a touch of class." I personally appreciate that it's a show that doesn't look down its nose at the audience. Its characters are sincere and lovely.
As far as the grandmother bit goes, I find it humourous, and apparently, others do to, because it's in the script and has gotten a laugh each time I saw the show. If you don't find it funny, don't laugh. But get over it. I don't find the Pong reference funny, but there are hundreds of people that do, so I don't go around running my mouth about how it shouldn't be in the show.
I love Stephen Lynch. I know he's not a dancer, and that's fine with me. He moves well for someone who isn't trained, and I don't think Robbie needs to have a ballet background to be entertaining. I think Lynch does a fine job falling after getting punched outside Julia's house, that's physicality enough for this role, IMO.
And if you think so lowly of the show and its humour,
nomdeplume, then why do you think Matt Morrison needs to be in it? Morrison will find another project, one better suited for him, that can be the "transitional" piece you wish him to find. Meanwhile, let Lynch continue to be the sweet, adorable Robbie that he is.
No, the show isn't perfect. But it's fun and I've never left the theatre disappointed.
"It's not for sissies, contrary to popular belief." - Tommy Tune, on musical theatre.
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