They rehearse with the stage manager, at times they bring in the understudies to rehearsal. And the replacement watches the show. A lot.
It is extremely common that the first time with the actual, complete cast is their first performance.
I'm sure there are variations, but the above is pretty common. (From what I've been told)
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