'people tend to be queens about certain issues like posting to much about one show.'
That's the exact quote. Since I know the term 'queens' isn't being used to describe female monarchs, I would then have to go to the next commonly used expression, which would be a term for a very specific brand of gay men. Usually the type that are considered 'bitchy' and 'effeminate'. And though 'queens', in this sense, can be used as a pointed term of endearment, I venture to guess, from the tone of the post and what surrounds it, that it certainly was meant prejoratively.
Quite honestly, I'm sick to death of young gay people passing judgement on those they consider typical - or stereotypical. Those 'queens', as you so indecorously call them, paved the way for your ability to be out, have a boyfriend and talk about it on a message board.
Show some respect for them...and for yourself.
"I'm so looking forward to a time when all the Reagan Democrats are dead."