Stockardfan, why are you "thanking" Javero for "understanding" your point? Don't you mean you're thanking him for "agreeing" with you...because that's what he said.
Maybe I don't "understand" your point. Why are you referring repeatedly to your "personal choice" to stay home with your kids in a thread about Sarah Palin if you are not implying something more? Perhaps you are unaware that your statement within the context it appears seems critical of women who do make the "choice" you did.
I also think that you do not "understand" my point, which is that some women do not have the option to stay home. Since you're getting "personal," I will share with you the fact that I have a disabled child AND I am the parent who works outside the home. However, I do so NOT by choice but because my husband is disabled as well and CANNOT work outside the home. Therefore, in order to feed and clothe my children, I must have a job for which I receive a paycheck. Plain and simple.
I am not mentioning this because I feel that I am being judged. I bring it up because I have empathy for women who do not have the option to stay home...even if that is their preference.
It's not always about "ambition" as Javero put it. Or making a lot of money because you want a big house and lots of luxuries. Sometimes it's a matter or survival.
Therefore I do not presume to judge Sarah Palin or Barack Obama's late mother or you. Everyone has their reasons...and sometimes it has nothing to do with "personal choice."
That being said, many children benefit from growing up in non-traditional households. And if you must know, Javero, we resolved the "wet nurse" issue by buying a portable pump and filling up bottles for my husband to use when I was not home. It was NOT fun for me, trust me, but I did it for my children because I wanted to.
Now, does everyone know enough personal info about me for one day?
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