Courage comes in many forms and all are equally admirable. And you seem to make it seem that I said that one must be gay to be courageous, which I did not say at all.
It seems as if you are suggesting that because no one would trade places with "a woman in Teheran," it makes them cowards, and that they should not be looked up to. Courage does not make on go looking for trouble, but it helps you to stay strong when faced with tremendous adversity.
"One no longer loves one's insight enough once one communicates it."
The opposite of creation isn't war, it's stagnation.