do you mean American's ARE stupid?
And Kate Winslet, by crazy Hollywood standards, is fat. To the rest of the world, she's perfectly normal. Same with Catherine Zeta Jones, who was reduced to tears every day watching the dailies of Chicago, because next to Anorexia Nervosa Zellwegger, she looked so huge. But of course, she was just normal, and it was La Zellwegger who looked like the freak show.
Nothing precious, plain to see, don't make a fuss over me. Not loud, not soft, but somewhere inbetween. Say sorry, just let it be the word you mean.