Plum,
I say this with love in my heart:
Take a nap.
I know you're tired. So take a nap.
People are very passionate about this subject (as I'm sure you know). And speaking from a place of pure passion isn't always going to yield the most coherent thoughts. But you have to recognize that passion and that it comes from a very real place. As an Israeli, I'm surprised you don't see where these very real (though perhaps a little irrational) thoughts are coming from.
But, then again, though things are HARDLY a bed of roses in Israel, you were the majority. You had a support system in place, through your government and families. That support system does not truly exist in this country (or, indeed, the UK) for gays and lesbians.
So please, for your sake, take a nap...get refreshed...and come back.
"I'm so looking forward to a time when all the Reagan Democrats are dead."