Bway--I'm sorry if I offended you.
By all means, I'm a fallible mortal, just like the next person. I feel strongly about this, though, and it leads to some hyperbolic statements.
Here are these hardworking session musicians, and when you watch the SNL thing, they smiled and tumbled right to it--they were smart, good-natured professionals. She does her jig, storms off stage and then has the nerve to blame the band. WTF? I think that you can admit (without questioning my integrity) that that is pretty dreadful behavior. And yes, I feel that there are moments that reveal one's character and that the "wrong" action costs you something. I think that blaming the band cost her the right to be given a free ride or a wave of sympathetic applause after a lousy performance.
"They have never understood, and no reason that they should.
But if anybody could . . . " --SS