Bobby - I really, REALLY wish there was some way to let you know that aging isn't a bad thing - and certainly not when you do it as well as you obviously are! You're gaining wisdom, insight, understanding, perspective and experience - NONE of which can be bought at any price. You're a beautiful man, and like fine wine, are only getting better with time
As for NYC, everywhere has that effect now and then - I recommend laughing in people's faces - and include gestures if you like.