So, I conform to Gay, Catholic and European, but I don't
look gay, so I should be fine.
I agree that Jerby has a point. However, that's the argument put forward by the boy scouts over kicking out gays, saying that if they weren't allowed to control their membership, gay rights organizations wouldn't be able to stop zealous anti-gay people from joining to mess things up. My problem with that is that anti-gay wackjobs are purely joining to disrupt the organization, whereas gay kids don't decide to join the boy scouts to cause disruption. There's a difference.
The rain we knew is a thing of the past -
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller