Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
SueleenGay
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/9/03
#1Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 2:45pm
So my brother-in-law is visiting to attend a wedding of an old girlfriend of his and wants to drag me along.
Putting aside the fact that I don't know the bride very well at all and didn't really enjoy the time I ever spent with her, I HATE weddings!
I am all for marriage and two people coming together to spend the rest of their lives together, but why do they have to do it in front of total strangers?
When was the last time you attended a wedding where you did not know the bride or groom?
Did you enjoy it?
PEACE.
vmlinnie
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/19/06
#2re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 2:54pmNo. Now, about this avatar...
The rain we knew is a thing of the past -
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
colleen_lee
Broadway Legend Joined: 8/16/05
#2re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 2:59pmSometimes I feel like it's more fun if you don't really know anyone, then you can get drunk and not give a heck about the repercussions.
"You just can't win. Ever. Look at the bright side, at least you are not stuck in First Wives Club: The Musical. That would really suck. "
--Sueleen Gay
JustAGuy
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/20/03
#3re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:00pmImitation is the sincerest form of flattery, Linnie. And a prime example of someone with no imagination.
"Just a Guy. Your feelings are touching. I am gladdened by the thought that you will one day wind up 6 feet under as we all do." - MrRoxy ------
"I do not suggest you walk out the door onto a New York street with your vulnerable child part exposed and not protected..." - Jason Bennett
vmlinnie
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/19/06
#4re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:03pm
Or an example of someone who wants just to use someone's distinctive image to remind others of said person's alledged disappearance, a disappearance which never occurred.
Confused?
The rain we knew is a thing of the past -
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
SueleenGay
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/9/03
#5re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:03pmI think the thing that disturbs me is when the wedding is more important than the marriage. They always have to do all that silly traditional stuff, have crappy singers and the food is usually terrible. I know we have probably had this conversation here before but it all came back this weekend how much I hate weddings. Oh, I won't be going, by the way.
PEACE.
JustAGuy
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/20/03
#6re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:06pm
Confused? No.
Bemused? Very.
"Just a Guy. Your feelings are touching. I am gladdened by the thought that you will one day wind up 6 feet under as we all do." - MrRoxy ------
"I do not suggest you walk out the door onto a New York street with your vulnerable child part exposed and not protected..." - Jason Bennett
vmlinnie
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/19/06
#7re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:06pmYour humourous signature and mannerisms aside, could we please have a normal non-confrontational discussion about the matter of the avatar?
The rain we knew is a thing of the past -
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
vmlinnie
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/19/06
#8re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:07pmYou missed a heated argument on this point on Thursday evening, Sueleen.
The rain we knew is a thing of the past -
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
DG
Broadway Legend Joined: 11/2/05
#9re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:20pm
I used to play the organ for weddings when I was a teenager - in fact, I did so many, MANY times. This led to a, shall we say, 'less than rose-colored' view of the proceedings.
If you combine that with my serious anger over not being allowed to have one of my own, I'd have to give a resounding 'NO!' in answer to the question.
And that's sad to me, because I'm inclined to respond very positively to the idea.
SueleenGay
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/9/03
#10re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:32pmWell the issue of the gay marriage it something else altogether. I have been to a couple of commitment ceremonies that were just as tacky and painful as a straight wedding.
PEACE.
vmlinnie
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/19/06
#11re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:35pm
The time will come, DG!
D2 mentioned a commitment cermony he had. Sounded nice.
SueleenGay, you wouldn't happen to have gotten a PM from me the other day, now would you?
The rain we knew is a thing of the past -
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
#12re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:41pmWell, if you hate weddings, didn't enjoy the time with the girl, why would you attend to the wedding? Don't go!
"People have their opinions and that doesn't mean that their opinions are wrong or right. I just take it with a grain of salt because opinions are like as*holes, everyone has one".
-Felicia Finley-
SueleenGay
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/9/03
#13re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:42pmMuscle you really are bright, aren't you?
PEACE.
vmlinnie
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/19/06
#14re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:43pm
She said she wasn't going.
And I said I wanted my identity back.
The rain we knew is a thing of the past -
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
#15re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:44pm
Muscle:
"Oh, I won't be going, by the way"-SueleenGay
I am a firm believer in serendipity- all the random pieces coming together in one wonderful moment, when suddenly you see what their purpose was all along.
DG
Broadway Legend Joined: 11/2/05
#16re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:44pm
"I have been to a couple of commitment ceremonies that were just as tacky and painful as a straight wedding."
Can't argue with that!
#17re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:47pm
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#18re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:49pm
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vmlinnie
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/19/06
#19re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:49pm
PJ, we all know that that photo is everywhere on the internet. But it's not everywhere on BWW. Here, it's a mark of me. Sueleen deliberately stole that to use as a tool to provoke people.
I want that stopped. Please.
The rain we knew is a thing of the past -
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
vmlinnie
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/19/06
#21re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:50pm
Yes, yes, Joey, we get the point.
But as far as BWW is concerned, Sueleen has used it not just to have a nice avatar, but to mimic me.
The rain we knew is a thing of the past -
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
#22re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:52pm
And at pixagogo.com, in Small, Medium, Original and Full-Screen
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SueleenGay
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/9/03
#23re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:52pmPJ what the hell are you going on about?
PEACE.
vmlinnie
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/19/06
#24re: Do you Love to Cry at Weddings?
Posted: 6/9/07 at 3:53pm
I must be blocked by Ms. Gay.
PJ, wow, you can use Google. Aren't you just great.
That's nt what this is about.
The rain we knew is a thing of the past -
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
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