Get TESTED!
#50re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 11:11am
here's good information directly from the FDA website for information on at home HIV kits. (i cannot believe that i was stupid enough to use a non FDA-approved device, but i guess i was...)
edit: updated website with information dating to April, 2006.
HIV at home kits
PED
#52re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 11:13am
Well, Mamie, not to jack this thread too much becauseI'm VERY glad people are talking about STI testing, but I honestly though the filter block was going to asterisk it out.
#53re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 11:14am
Well, you did subscribe to Vonage. Just sayin.
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#57re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 11:20amHow about **** you, SOMMS? Can you say that?
#73re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 12:07pmIt means something else in Gaelic, but around here it means "hag."
#73re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 12:13pm
Found this on dictionary.com...
rath /ræθ/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[rath] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation.
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[Origin: bef. 900; ME; OE hræth, hræd quick, active; c. D rad, ON hrathr]
—Related forms
rathely, adverb
ratheness, noun
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rath
Rath, n. [Ir. rath.] 1. A hill or mound. [Ireland] --Spencer.
2. A kind of ancient fortification found in Ireland.
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rath
Rath, Rathe Rathe, a. [AS. hr[ae][eth], hr[ae]d, quick, akin to OHG. hrad, Icel. hra[eth]r.] Coming before others, or before the usual time; early. [Obs. or Poetic]
Bring the rathe primrose that forsaken dies. --Milton.
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#74re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 12:17pm
"Coming before others"
Yep, she usually comes before me.
#79re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 12:46pm
Coming before others is SO f'ing rude!
I betcha fall asleep right after too!
and bway, I adore you for starting this thread...I was writing before, had to work, and now it's irrelevant.
(I know...that never stopped me from posting before!)
"In Oz, the verb is douchifizzation." PRS
#80re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 12:47pm
Yes, this is a great thread. People need to stay informed about safe sex and their status.
When bway and I get Gay Bash up and running, we are going to do a show about this topic. It's a neverending issue.
#76re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 1:14pmGetting tested is just one step in the many steps to STI prevention.
Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted. - Randy Pausch
#63re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 1:22pm
ABsolutely!I hope I haven't come off as suggesting a test is sufficient.
For lots of people who really don't know what to do, though, this is a GREAT start. GO get tested. Talk to the HIV counselor, the doctor, about what you need to do to be safe. I don't know about the city health services (given the crappy hoops the current White House Administration is requiring you to jump through for federal funding) but places like Callen-Lorde offer VERY pro-sex safety discussions. THey're all about you having the sex that YOU enjoy as safely as possible.
Kringas
Broadway Legend Joined: 5/27/05
#64re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 1:30pmThe clinic in Chicago (at least the one in Lakeview) offers a compulsory safe sex seminar while you wait (and wait you do). The whole thing was very non-judgmental, basically just repeating the fact to wrap it up if you're going to use it. Although I've always tried to keep myself knowledgeable, but I learned some things I didn't know, such as the fact that syphilis can be transmitted simply from skin to skin contact or that men should try to urinate as soon as possibly after orgasm, as that can help you flush out any bacteria, etc.
#65re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 1:32pm
"that men should try to urinate as soon as possibly after orgasm, as that can help you flush out any bacteria, etc."
At my age, that's not a problem anymore.
*sigh*
"In Oz, the verb is douchifizzation." PRS
#66re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 1:33pmNow if we could start getting these kinds of seminars to kids when they first start having sex, that would certainly help stymie the spread of not only STIs but also unwanted pregnancies.
Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted. - Randy Pausch
#67re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 1:36pm
One point I'd like to further point out, is that back in the day, I worked at Callen Lorde and other HIV/STD medical facilities...what I saw over and over again was cross infection of all these diseases between partners/married people - gay and straight. Noone wants to think about their partner possibly cheating, but the possibility is always there...deal with it rationally and like an adult. Get tested and talk to your partner.
"In Oz, the verb is douchifizzation." PRS
Kringas
Broadway Legend Joined: 5/27/05
#68re: Get TESTED!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 1:36pm
Or if non-kids could take a little more initiative to learn how to protect themselves and actually do it. I'm constantly astounded at the risks taken by people who should know better.
And I'm not judging or pointing fingers here. It's easy to screw up and I'd never say that I've never had a lapse in judgement in all my years of sexual activity. I'm just amazed how many people seem to never exercise any judgement.
#69get tested!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 5:50pmthis is an important subject and shouldn't be allowed to slip away to the 2nd page until people have seen it enough to internalize its message and do something about it!
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Kringas
Broadway Legend Joined: 5/27/05
#70get tested!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 5:56pmIs there a message to be found here? Three or fours posts notwithstanding, this thread is indistinguishable from most thread that have been prominent today.
#71get tested!
Posted: 11/29/06 at 5:59pm
People die...okay!
Yes it's important.
Also, it's important to know how some folks make fun of the fact (lazyafternoon).
How shameful can you be?
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