"I still don't understand. So basically you just make up your own story in your head as you read?"
No. I never said any such thing.
"It's not really a matter of agreeing with the author's decisions. She's the author."
That's exactly what it is. Anyone can disagree with an author's decision. Stephen King wrote an entire novel about exactly that called
Misery. But in the case of that story, the fan literally forces the author to change his decision. I've never been so stupid or presumptuous as that.
"You can speculate and write alternative versions, but at the end of the day what JK Rowling says goes."
It's really not that hard. I read what she writes. Then I say, "Ok, but I would have preferred _______." I've never asked nor required her to change anything.
That's all there is to it. I don't deny or ignore what she writes. I don't really "speculate" or write alternative versions. It is totally a matter of having a different preference from the author. Rowling has written how she wants things to work out for the characters. I totally accept that. I'm just saying it may not be how I would have chosen. It doesn't matter in the end, but my opinion is totally valid. I really like all the choices Rowling has made with the exception of the Harry/Ron/Hermione couplings.
Haven't you ever loved a novel while reading it, but absolutely hated the ending? Same thing.
I would prefer to have Harry and Hermione together. That's all. It's pretty simple to think it, actually. Anyone can do it. Give it a try...
"What can you expect from a bunch of seitan worshippers?" - Reginald Tresilian