I think it depends on the intention of the date. If you have a genuine intrest in the person, and want to have a relationship with them, then I would say anything more then hooking up is too far. If it is obviously a one-night stand, then all limits are pretty much off. In the end, it all depends on the situation and what both parties are comfortable with.
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