I Enjoy Being A Girl — Page 170

It will be super awkward and uncomfortable, but definitely confront her. I had to confront my roommate in college when she 1)kept bringing random LOUD boys back to the room at 3am on weeknights, 2)threw up all over MY stuff (textbooks, notes, clothes, bed, etc.), and 3)was just basically a b*tch. It sucked, but was totally worth it. Not to disappoint you or anything, but we didn't work it out and she moved out of the room 2nd semester. As long as I didn't have to move my stuff then I was happy LOL

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I've been sitting here reading the last five or so pages of this thread... you gals are just the most fantastic assortment of people (and Piano too, of course!)

Kels, I have a friend just like that...only now it's gotten to the point where I don't even think of her as a friend anymore, or get any enjoyment out of her company at all. It sounds horrible, but I spend so much time with this girl trying to be nice that it's literally making me dread going to school.

Maisie knows who I'm taking about.

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Schmerg, that sounds like hell on earth!!! Just from being on this thread for almost 3 months (can you believe it?!) you strike me as a genuinely nice young woman as it is. To already be a nice person and having to remind yourself to remain amiable toward this trollop sounds really vexing and like a burden. You're going to be a senior next year right? Use that as a stepping stone to be assertive when it comes to this annoying girl. I don't mean start a nasty rumor about her, although those can be fun, but do your best to keep her at arm's length. People often grow apart over the summer, use that time as a buffer for whatever crap she's flinging your way. By the time school starts again things might be better for you.

I remember having to cut someone from my life when I was around 16. She was a black girl named Amber and we'd been really good friends since we were in 7th grade. At the time I was making more friends from all the different cliques in school and she mainly just stuck to people like her. When I started hanging out with my "white friends", as she called them, she made comments about them that I considered to be racist and I made up in my mind that I wouldn't be able to maintain a friendship with someone who wasn't able to see past skin color. We had a monumental blow out of a fight where she called me an "Oreo Bitch", black on the outside/ white on the inside, and I haven't spoken to her since. Gosh was she a raging bitch or what?! CRAZY!!

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I'm sorry, but calling someone an Oreo Bitch makes me laugh, like wtf? She is stupid, get the f' over yourself! Thats what I would have told her!

I am over the drama and the toxic friendships. I also leaned that I was to blame for even allowing it in my life. You know how people treat you the way you allow them too? I found that out the hard way! lol. Now, those drama queens get nowhere with me.

..of course it took me wayyyy longer than it should have. You girls already sound like you know how to deal with it!

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Updated On: 6/12/20 at 04:51 PM

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Updated On: 6/12/20 at 10:41 AM

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Updated On: 6/12/20 at 10:55 AM

Good morning! It's raining craploads in Texas.

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Last day in Florida. We had 13 straight days of no rain! Oh well, back to reality...

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Updated On: 6/12/20 at 03:37 PM

Schmerg, I feel your pain. I used to have the worst allergies...they're taking a long time to start up this year though, which is actually freaking me out.

Sounds fun, bb! Have a good time tonight!

It's gorgeous here too, but I spent most of the day getting my hair did and shopping. I took the plunge and got bangs! I've had the side-swept thing going on for a while, but I wanted the full-on thing. Last time I had them was when I was a tiny, blonde toddler jag. They're taking a little getting used to, but I dig them so far.